Washington DC Edition

June 15, 2008

Long ago someone described an analogy that stuck with me, about how much the first four years post-college–the first four years of “life”–mimic progress through an education. Freshman year of “life,” 2008-2009 when I was living in Redwood City, I was figuring out where I was and who I should be becoming, halfway between homesickness for the halcyon school days and feeling like a bona fide adult. Sophomore year, 09-10, saw me getting out of my comfort zone and exploring new territory, having moved to DC. Junior year I “studied abroad” in China. Senior year featured some soul searching (leaving China, beginning the job search) and finally becoming fully and gainfully employed and adultier.

Next month will mark the four year anniversary of my graduation from Stanford. I never would have envisioned that these four years would have looked like this, but it’s certainly been an amusing ride.

Back to the present. I had originally interviewed at Booz Allen Hamilton in October of last year and had been tentatively offered a job shortly thereafter, but not to start until April. In January off I went to Southeast Asia and in February, to that action-packed Caribbean cruise. Within a week of returning I got the phone call I’d been waiting for, with a firm start date from Booz Allen three weeks hence.

So, next up was a whirlwind of packing and shopping (BAH offered a relocation package that took care of all the costs of moving my large quantities of Stuff) and quick goodbye-west-coast trips to AZ and SF. Ro joined me for the trip to DC, and we arrived Apr. 5, preceding my moving truck by a couple of days. The biggest delight of the day was the couch that had been purchased in CA and stubbornly refused to fit through the apartment door. Hey, did you know you can hire people to come to your house, take your furniture apart, and then reassemble it inside?

See the size of that couch? See the size of that hallway?

At Booz Allen, I am a consultant in the Strategy and Organization Capability, Organizational Efficiency and Effectiveness Center of Excellence. Yes, it’s possible to say that in one breath but just barely. What this means practically is that I’m on a project helping the Department of Navy work towards audit readiness by compiling and centralizing information about financial procedures. As far as consulting gigs go, this one has some advantages–I’m on a small, manageable team of 6, it’s a contract expected to last as long as two years, and I’ll have a legit permanentish office, as opposed to sitting at a client site or sitting in temporary office space. One downside is that that office is in Crystal City–this is a commute that involves about 16 mins of walking, 15 mins of metro-riding, and 2-10 minutes of wait time, so not bad (but not as ideal as it would have been to sit in the Booz Allen DC office by my house). My project is still in the ramping-up stages and there are some kinks to iron out (still waiting for that permanent office to be assigned), but all in all this is going to be a good opportunity to do real work and learn a ton.

Meanwhile, things on the “life” side of the Work-Life Balance are swimming along nicely. Somehow I’ve already managed to consolidate/acquire more friends in this go-around than I did in the 09-10 year, so it’s been a busy few weeks and I’m not complaining. Except about how I’m not getting an ideal amount of sleep. It’s a great time to be in DC–good weather (mostly), people excited about summer’s arrival, and lots of new people to meet.

I’m also really happy with my living situation–I’m in a decent-sized studio in a big building on Scott Circle, within a 10-minute walk of three metro lines, the White House, Whole Foods, and tons of restaurants and bars, and in a 25-minute walk I can be in almost every major entertainment district in DC or, like, the Smithsonian. For all my frequent Smithsonian trips.

It’s kind of strange to be able to look forward and not see any major changes on the horizon. This is pretty much the first time since high school that I haven’t known a move was eventually coming, and that I’ve had an occupation that can really go on indefinitely. But meanwhile, I’ve got some exciting plans to look forward to. Matthew and I are doing Birthright Israel in August. I expect to be in CA for weddings etc in August and October. There are a couple of delightful friends planning visits to DC in July. And hopefully along the way there’ll be more local adventures like beach trips.

So, sum total, life is pretty good. It would have surprised me, at college graduation or even at leaving China last year, to know what was going to happen down the road but I guess that’s life. Come visit me in DC and see for yourself!

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14 Days in the Southern Caribbean, aka, most fabulous last-minute vacation eva!

Happy Pi Day! Pi may not have been much on my mind recently, but pie certainly has been. For you see, I recently returned from a vacation with my extended family’s most accomplished pie maker—and I don’t think an evening went by between Feb. 25 and Mar. 9 that didn’t feature a mention of pie or a discussion of our ship’s standard Apple Pie a la Mode in comparison.

Ft. Lauderdale, two sea days, Aruba, Curacao, sea day, Grenada, Barbados, St. Lucia, Antigua, Saint-Martin/Sint Maarten, St. Thomas, two sea days, Ft. Lauderdale

My maternal grandfather, Leo, has four siblings with whom he’s always been close, and in the last few years my grandparents have taken several cruises with these siblings and spouses. Gleo (Gloria+Leo), started planning this two-week Southern Caribbean cruise on the Celebrity Constellation several months ago, and as I continued to enjoy my funemployment I had in the back of my mind the idea of joining them. I wasn’t sure I had the time to do it until the morning of February 22, however–and within four hours, Ro and I were booked on a cruise departing three days hence! We were thrilled to join Gleo, along with great-aunts Lee and Bert, great-uncle Bill, and great-aunt’s-boyfriend Irv as a last-minute surprise.

Last-minute is pretty key here. We ended up booking the cruise and flight to Florida about 50 hours before we left for the trip, and we literally booked our return flight from Ro’s iphone while waiting at the airport for our departure flight. We got about the same price for our cruise as we would have gotten if we had booked several months earlier, but our airfare cost about twice as much as my grandparents’ (booked in November). Since I’m a champion packer—who, shh, was still partially packed from Southeast Asia and recent weekend trips—getting my suitcase ready last-minute wasn’t an issue. (I approach packing using the container approach, using separate organizers/bags/folders for each category of clothing and accessory, since you asked.) Instead, our biggest problem with such a short prep period was that we didn’t have much time to plan for our destinations.

Knip Beach, Curacao

Our two-week cruise featured five sea-days and eight ports in the Southern and Eastern Caribbean, with a day spent in each port. Usually before a cruise (and did I mention this was my 18th cruise? jeez), we would have spent time researching each port and figuring out the most interesting things to see most cost-effectively. For example, since ship’s shore excursions are often more expensive and more limited than excursions booked directly through independent operators in each port, with more time I would have done more research on operators and recommendations. (To get started finding non-ship’s excursions, searching for recommended operators on Cruise Critic is a great place to start.) We were able to do some of this, and all of our port days turned out well, but with more time time we might have done more planning more calmly.

Deciding, within a four-hour period, whether I+Ro could go on this trip and whether we could justify the cost and time away was a little stressful, but in the end we were very glad everything worked out so well. I got to know family with whom I had never spent much time, and I don’t know if another opportunity like this one will come about again. And with great weather, beautiful beaches and islands, and delicious cruisey food, how could we go wrong?

I know you probably don’t want to read a step-by-step rundown of our time on the cruise, so instead I’ll leave you with my favorite kind of trip summary: by the numbers.

Average age of the members of our party, excluding Ro and me: 86.3

Approximate average age among the 2000 passengers on the ship: 65

Number of people ages 3-18, out of these full 2000 passengers: 11 (Do you see what I’m getting at here, about the demographics of this cruise?)

Number of injuries or illnesses among our party that required a visit to the ship’s doctor: 6

Most serious injury in our party: broken nose and two black eyes from a ship lurching-related fall

Most ridiculous injury in our party: driving Leo’s electric scooter over one’s own feet

Most important piece of family trivia learned: In his youth, Leo could skin 85 muskrats in an hour (with carcasses purchased from the fur trappers and pelts then sold to the traders)

Games of trivia played on the ship in which Ro’s and my team either won or tied for the win: approx. 6/14

Most important game of trivia played: Broadway Name That Tune, which I won despite playing solo versus teams of up to 6

Number of pages of novels read during trip: 1700

Most embarrassing moment of trip: when Ro and I tried to leave a show early and were called out by the performer from stage. This happened TWICE.

The family on the final formal night. Clockwise from top left: Ro, Me, Irv, Lee, Bert, Bill, Leo, and Gloria.

Number of first-time ports for me: 8/8

Number of islands visited that are independent countries I can add to my list of countries visited: 4

Number of islands visited that are kind of independent countries: 3

Total number of countries I have now visited (counting generously vs. technically): 48, 42

Official ship’s excursions taken: Aruba (catamaran and snorkeling); St. Lucia (jungle mountain biking excursion); St. Thomas/St. John (ferry to St. John for snorkeling and beach)

Non-ship tours taken through private operators in port: Curacao (all-day van tour of island with Peter Trips); Barbados (found a 3-hour van tour at the tourism desk when we got to port); Saint-Martin/Sint Maarten (all-day minibus island tour with Bernard’s Tours)

DIY days in port: Grenada (walked around town, took a cab to the beach); Antigua (cab to the beach)

Island to which I’d most like to return for a longer visit: Curacao for a low-key vacation, Saint-Martin for a partying-and-French-food vacation, or Barbados for a no-cost-barred vacation

Planes landing overhead at Sunset Beach, Sint Maarten

So, a great trip overall—very different from my recent tromp through Southeast Asia, but variety is the spice of travel. Cruising has its drawbacks, like not getting to spend more than a few daytime hours in any given place, but it’s hard to find an easier, more accessible vacation. Cruising caters to a range of activity levels, since you can do anything you want in port and still make it to Family Cocktail Hour and Dinner. Two members of our group never even left the ship and still had a lovely time hanging out on the ship and enjoying the family. Ro and I enjoyed plenty of beaches and sightseeing, and got a taste of where we might someday care to return, and only had to unpack once.

The next big adventure? Moving to DC! As I’ve mentioned before I’ve had a tentative job in DC to start around April, and today I got an official start date. I’ll be working as a management consultant at Booz Allen Hamilton, and am starting April 9 and heading to DC shortly before that. Very excited that everything has worked out, and although spending six months at home while job searching and then waiting to start work wasn’t what I expected, I have no regrets–especially since I got to spend so much time traveling and with family.

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Singapore: So shiny, so clean, so silly

I write this while about to take off on my next adventure, i.e. an exciting red-eye to Florida. But I’ll leave you on tenterhooks about this story for a few moments: first, we have Singapore to cover!

Singapore Art Museum (my camera malfunctioned so I'm a bit light with photo evidence of our time in Singapore)

I chose to spend the last three days of my trip in Singapore partially for logistical reasons. Most of the SNU Crew was going to be leaving Bali earlier than my return-flight to the US would allow, so I decided to pick one more destination that I could see in a short period of time and that would be close to Kuala Lumpur, from whence I would be flying home. Singapore fit the bill perfectly.

Amy, an SNU friend, and I left our hotel in Bali at 4:30 a.m. and by 10:30 we were happily ensconced in a hostel by Singapore’s Clarke Quay. The first hour in country was already delightful: getting from the airport to the hostel on public transit was very straightforward, and the hostel (Five Stones) was the cleanest and swankiest I’ve ever visited. One deterrent for budget travelers to Singapore is the higher prices compared to the rest of Southeast Asia—but at only about $20 per night for a dorm bed, at least lodging wasn’t too horrifying. Side note: this will be the last time I will ever sleep in a 14-bed dorm room. But that wasn’t your fault, Singapore.

One of the next things we noticed was how excited Singaporeans seem to tell visitors about Singapore. The Singapore travel bureau website is the fanciest I’ve ever seen (and I used to look at travel bureau websites for a living), and everyone we spoke to was eager to help, eager to suggest attractions, and eager to talk about their life in Singapore.

Day One featured a guidebook-inspired walking tour and a pair of museums—the fun Singapore Art Museum, featuring modern and contemporary works by Singaporean and Asian artists, and the National Museum of Singapore, a fancy schmancy and high-tech ode to Singapore’s history and culture. We also enjoyed Singapore Slings in their birthplace, the Raffles Hotel—even if it was one of the most expensive drinks I’ve ever enjoyed, and even if there is a bit of a mass atmosphere in the long bar (two busloads of German tourists shared the hall with us), it was still amusing. (And we ate our money’s worth of their peanuts.) To round out the day of classic, touristy Singapore we supped in a hawker market, filled with dozens of stands offering specific Singaporean or Asian dishes. Yummy, and another money-saver.

Now, I shouldn’t have to remind any readers of this blog what a fan I am of good theme parks—Hong Kong Disneyland was probably one of the highlights of Peace Corps China, let’s be real. So when I found out there’s a Universal Studios Singapore it was easy deciding to allot it one of our three days. We arrived at opening time, obvi, with the intent of beating the crowds, but that was hardly even necessary since there were five minute waits or less on every ride all day (note: visiting on a weekday in January is a great plan).

I haven’t been to Universal Studios Hollywood or Florida in several years, so although many of the Singapore park’s attractions are repeated in other parks, they were almost all new to me. (One of my major problems with Universal in general, compared to Disney, is that too many of their rides are dependent on current movies that not everyone may have seen. After the Transformers, Mummy, and Madagascar rides I had to have Amy explain all the plot gaps I didn’t get….) In any case, it’s a great park—similar to Hong Kong Disney in size and scope, meaning smaller than the US parks, but we can hope it’ll grow over time. The only horrifying part? I’ve been on a lot of cruises, but perhaps the most cracked-out musical revue I’ve ever seen was Monster Rock!, which features slutty classic movie villains singing and dancing to hits like Flo Rida’s “Low” and Chinese power ballad “Wo Ai Ni.”

That night Amy and I got to see another silly side of the nation’s “culture”: that of the expat businessman in Singapore, swimming in cash and unafraid to throw it around. While having a beer in the financial district Amy and I made friends with a couple of such, and we were just happy we weren’t going to be around when the time came to pay the piper. But if ever you’re looking for a swanky bar recommendation, the 282-meter UBC building houses a lovely rooftop bar called 1-Altitude.

You can imagine that the third morning was a little rough, and Amy and I opted for the low-effort activity of riding a hop-on hop-off bus and boat long enough to get a nice drive-by view of the city’s main neighborhoods and attractions. And actually, between that tour and our previous forays we had a pretty thorough experience of Singapore’s sites and history–we never even visited the Marina Bay Sands resort, but I’d be happy to tell you when it was built, what it was inspired by, or how much it costs to rent the top floor for a 700-person company party.

During one of my last moments in Singapore, I stopped in a 7-Eleven to buy gum in advance of my three flights back to California, but couldn’t find it in the store. I picked out mints but asked the cashier what was the deal—silly me not to have realized that gum cannot be sold in this cleanest of countries! Yes, Singapore can feel a little sterile and cold—a couple of people I spoke with complained about the lack of creativity or vibrancy of culture—but as long as you know what you’re getting into it provides a great contrast to most of Southeast Asia. One of my biggest disappointments is that I never saw the giant slide in the Singapore airport, so twist my arm, I guess I’ll have to return some day.

I’ve been home for three weeks now, and two days ago Roberta and I made a last-minute decision to join my grandparents and two sets of great-aunts/uncles on a two-week Caribbean cruise. Yay for “funemployment”! As mentioned, we’re on a red-eye to Florida, and I’m very excited to enjoy the sunny tropics on a different side of the world, but also to spend time with some fam and help out. I’ll be back in mid-march for some more fabulous travel blogging!

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Bali: Beaches, Culture, and the Worst 90 Mins of my Life

There’s a recurring thread on the Lonely Planet message boards, and everywhere else where Bali is discussed, in which travelers debate the essential Bali question: can we still consider Bali a tropical, fascinating paradise, or have years of overdevelopment, a hard-partying atmosphere of “Western-style hedonism” (quoth one Malaysian website), and the legacy of Eat, Pray, Love effectively ruined the place for travelers seeking a beautiful, “authentic” Balinese experience?

Well, let’s start with a word about this concept of authenticity, which is one I object to rather strenuously. I’ve enjoyed a fair amount of travel in my 25 years (Indonesia makes country #41!) and have had many different types of travel experiences. Everyone’s travel goals vary: the average Chinese tourist is happiest on whistle-stop tours to the biggest sites with all other cultural experiences relegated to second-place or last place. My father experiences a place by photographing it on endless walks through the streets; other friends experience places best by sitting in cafes “soaking up the atmosphere.” Is any experience truly less valid or “real” than any other? Any more than there’s no “right” way to experience a certain piece of art, I don’t think any travel experience should be considered invalid as long as the visitor gets what he wants to out of his trip.

So back to Bali. Is Bali overtouristed and overdeveloped, compared to what it probably was ten or more years ago? Yes. It’s still possible to find Balinese experiences interacting with natives and enjoying unspoilt nature and temples, but it may be harder to find them. But if modern Bali is just this–more built up and noisy and tourist-filled–then that is what modern Bali is. So quit your whining about authenticity, accept that what this place actually is means that’s what’s authentic, and move on.

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Ferry captain-cum-DJ en route to Gili T

Anyway. My Balinese experience began via a backdoor. I left the CQ Posse in Sumatra and flew from there to Lombok, the island east of Bali, to meet up with the SNU Crew. The final leg of my day-long journey was a short ferry ride to Gili Trawangan (Gili T, henceforth), one of three tiny islands suspended between Lombok and Bali, and I was delighted to arrive in style thanks to our ferry captain-cum-DJ and the dance-pop he blasted.

If you’re planning a trip to Bali and choose to visit a Gili island, I hesitate before recommending Gili T, and I hesitate before recommending it as your first Bali-region stop. Of the three Gili islands, Gili T is the one that’s most developed, and besides being home to beautiful beaches and resorts, it’s also home to some of the most raucous nightlife you can find outside of Bali’s famed Kuta area (more on that later). All this in spite of being an island that bans all motorized vehicles (visitors and deliveries get around via horse-and-cart).

When making plans to come to Gili T, I hoped to be able to combine the best of both worlds—to experience the dance parties at night and explore the quieter side of the various Gilis by day. Unfortunately, I was laid up with illness for much of our time on the island, so these plans didn’t quite come to pass. Either way, I learned a useful travel lesson from our Gili tenure—no place can do everything perfectly (BEST beach, BEST nightlife, BEST restaurants, BEST unspoilt wilderness), so prioritize what’s most important. If I could do it again, I might have chosen to sacrifice development and entertainment in favor of a quieter experience on one of the other two Gilis. I also might have chosen to start on Bali itself and get to know that area before moving on to the “Little Bali” experience, so that I would have been better able to appreciate the differences between them.

Approaching Gili T

After a few days on Gili T, and having finally recovered from my malaise, the seven of us (did I tell you there were seven people in the SNU Crew? Yes, that many can be a little much) headed to Bali via two separate fast boats on an experience henceforth to be known as The Horrifying Ferry from Hell and Horror, aka the Worst 90 Minutes of my Life.

Our winter is the rainy season on Bali, and apparently that also makes for more vicious waves—something I didn’t know. And this fact remained unknown until about 20 minutes into the ferry ride, when things started to get rough. And then rougher. At various intervals we were airborn, suspended in the waves at a 60 degree angle, or looking out upon columns of water as waves rose up perhaps 15 feet on either side. Where were the lifejackets, I wondered? Or at least, I wondered absently during the few moments of calm between bouts of vomiting.

Finally we were let out to stumble onto dry land, making half-hearted attempt to wipe off the vomit, tears, and sea water. Apparently two days later one of the boats capsized near the harbor and operations on all fast boats were suspended until the end of the rainy season.

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Our next stop was Ubud, cultural heart of Bali in the middle of the island. You go to Bali’s beaches for sun and entertainment, and you come to Ubud and environs for yoga, temples, rice paddies, and spiritual balance. Apparently. It was here that Elizabeth Gilbert spent the “Love” part of Eat, Pray, Love.

Lindsay, Chelsea and I with some rice paddy terraces

Ubud is overrun with family compounds-turned-hotels, since traditionally an extended Balinese family lives together in a walled complex with separate bungalows for each family branch and for the family’s temple(s). Here the living was far cheaper than it had been on Gili T, or would be on the beach. We spent the next few days strolling the streets and browsing the shops, eating everything from back-alley Balinese street food to organic Cuban-fusion (which we actually ate twice), and generally enjoying the laid-back atmosphere of the town. One day we took a little hike through rice fields, and another day we did a formal bike tour (beautiful, but could have been more fun if we weren’t compelled by our guide to coast downhill riding the breaks the entire ride). Ubud is a place where seekers of spiritual balance come, and it also serves as a good balance for travelers hoping for a counterweight for Bali’s beaches. If you’re looking for something a little meatier than tanning for your Bali vacation, you can find whatever intellectual stimulation and cultural significance you want. I recommend staying a few days, but to stay longer is hard—the siren song of the beach is too tempting.

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Balangan Beach--the buildings are restaurants and surfer-friendly homestays

The final act of our ten days in Bali was the beach. Perhaps Bali’s best known area is Kuta, the beach that’s home to all the wildest clubs and most youthful, party-going crowd—but we chose only to visit that scene rather than to stay. Instead, we headed to the island’s southern peninsula, picking a hotel on a cliff overlooking Balangan Beach. The southern beaches are often described as Bali’s most beautiful, but getting off the beaten path also means staying down a long, windy path that’s a costly taxi ride from everywhere else. I picked our hotel, Balangan Sea View, at the conclusion of a stressful morning of calling around, since one doesn’t want to just walk-in to middle-of-nowhere hotels when one is rolling in with eight people (we had gained another member by then, you see).

In any case, we were happy to spend the next two days enjoying the hotel’s clear pool and the dramatic-looking beach down the cliffside. The nights were interesting too—one night Amy, Gareth and I made the trek to Kuta to see the scene, which was an excellent choice.

Someone had told me at a bar in Phoenix that I had to find this club in Bali that had five stories, bungee jumping over a pool, and only opened at 3am. I’m still not sure if we found the club in question, but we definitely found a Scene in Kuta. I had no idea how close Bali is to Australia—most Australians can reach it with a cheap flight of 2-6 hours, and MANY apparently take advantage of that. I have never seen so many boys (and boys they were) in tank tops up in the club. We danced, we chatted with other travelers, we walked up and down the main drag of bars, and we concluded—yep, that’s Kuta, let’s check it off the list and be done with it forever! But in any case, it was fun.

"Friend" from the Monkey Forest in Ubud

On our final night in Bali we enjoyed a more serene scene, heading for the row of seafood markets and restaurants on the beach in Jimbaran. We splurged a little on the meal, but where else could I, for $20, pick my own live seafood and then enjoy, fresh-grilled, an assemblage of shrimp, clams, fish, lobster tail, and crab? One caveat: I definitely do not recommend trying to pry all that shellfish apart when in the company of anyone whom you’d like to impress with your social graces.

The strange conclusion of that evening was that, as we were leaving Jimbaran, we saw a car get stolen. Yep, as we were negotiating with a taxi driver another taxi was snatched a driven away like a bat out of hell, while a herd of helpless taxi drivers ran after it. Saudi Arabian organized crime, big problem, implied our driver.

The following day (using that term loosely), I once again enjoyed a 4am wake-up as Amy and I prepared to leave the group and head to Singapore for the final leg of the trip. As discussed previously, Malaysia surprised me in providing a new experience despite having visited before, and Sumatra surprised me how wild and untouristed it felt.

Bali surprised me in that it didn’t meet the (perhaps too-lofty) expectations I had set for it. Yes, it was beautiful and interesting and we had a great time, but there are lots of places that are beautiful and interesting and fun but aren’t as built-up and slick as Bali. Would I describe our experience as inauthentic because of all that? No—just different.

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Take me home, country roads: West Sumatra

The Sumatran countryside basically looks exactly like you picture it should

On day two of our time in West Sumatra, I asked my friend Leora, trip planner for the CQ Posse, why she had chosen Padang, West Sumatra and environs as our post-Malaysia destination. To paraphrase: “Well…we knew we wanted to go to Indonesia, and Bali seemed overdone. And the flight to Padang was cheap, and it looked cool on the Internet…” And that was enough.

We landed Padang, the largest city in West Sumatra, with a general outline of where to visit when, and of course my all-important Lonely Planet guide. Our first impressions of Indonesia were not particularly positive: customs took 70 minutes, and touts outside the airport hawking their transport options were particularly vocal. But soon we were on our way: squeezed in our new “Uncle’s” van, clutching a million rupiah each (We’re rich! Oh, that’s actually only $90 or so), sitting between a man in a traditional Arabic white robe and hat on my left and a man in a Reese’s Peanut Butter Cup t-shirt on my right. While country music in Bahasa Indonesian played.

Old Dutch clock tower in Bukittinggi

Our first destination, Bukittinggi, was picturesquely described by guidebooks as either a “busy market town” or an “incongruous” place “blessed by nature, choked by mortals.” The Orchid Hotel (pronounced with the “ch” as in Charlie) left something to be desired, but what it lacked in structural style it made up for in personality. Or, several personalities.

On our first afternoon, while Sumatra companions Leora and Meghan napped, I realized that neither my iPhone plug nor the adapter I had bought in Malaysia would fit the Indonesian sockets. I went downstairs and asked the nearest available staff member for advice. “I’ll show you,” said my new friend An, and within three minutes we left the hotel on motorcycle. We zoomed to the market, and somehow in the next few minutes I developed a burn from the exhaust pipe, felt compelled to accept and finish the first cup of coffee I can ever recall having drunk in its entirety, and acquired an invitation for my friends and I to join An’s cohort for street food and karaoke later.

Our first stop on our evening extravaganza was a street corner across town, where we enjoyed Bukittinggi’s finest martabaks, pancake/dough things stuffed with either meat (delicious) or desert items like banana and chocolate (unbelievably and mind-numbingly delicious).

Meghan, Leora, me, and our new friend Putra in the countryside near Bukittinggi

Next up was our friends’ friend’s bar-cum-internet café, where Leora’s driver Putra and the non-English-speaking Uncle Patrick (incidentally, the only word I learned in the local dialect was “om,” uncle) played guitar while we all raised our voices in song and enjoyed Indonesian Bintang beer. You know who’s popular in West Sumatra? Maroon 5 and Brian Adams and John Denver. You know who’s not? Lady Gaga.

Lake Maninjau

The next day we joined our Indonesian Besties on an all-day motorcycle tour to scenic Lake Maninjau and sites around (LP intones that “In Indonesia, the line between business and socializing isn’t as distinct as it is in the West”—that may have been true in our case, but it wasn’t an objection for us either, considering the situation for many would-be guides in a state that enjoys far fewer tourist and tourist dollars than it used to). Spending the day on a motorcycle may have left me a little road-weary, but there were lots of great stops on the way to the lake—rice paddies, a jewelry maker, and a roadside lunch where all the restaurants dishes are placed on the table and one eats and pays for only what we want—using only one’s hands as utensils, of course.

Our bungalow in the Harau Valley

The next morning, having had enough of the Orchid and the Indonesian Besties, we moved on to another scenic spot, the Harau Valley, a village surrounded by 100m cliffs. With help from Orchid we picked Abdi Homestay, an option I cannot recommend enough that is comprised of three electricity-less bungalows nestled down a dirt path between a rice field and a cliff face. It’s a family affair, with owner Ikbal and his brother Ricky holding down the fort and leading guests on hikes and Ikbal’s wife providing all the meals. Our first day featured a short hike to a series of waterfalls (why yes, to avoid a bucket-shower in the bungalow I did bring soap to the waterfall for a hair-washing alternative), and the second day featured, improbably, the hardest jungle trek yet!

Resting on Jungle Trek, Hour 2

I wondered at first why two guides (Ikbal and Ricky) were needed to lead the three of us on a hike, but it turned out to have been an important choice. Hour 1: Eating Mangosteens, Without a Care in the World. Hour 2: Steep Uphill Scramble of Sweat and Suffering. Hour 3-5: Weaving through Jungle Foliage and Ferns and Wishing I Brought a Machete—but also, Delicious Picnic Lunch. Hour 6: Reaching the Top Just as the Mini-Monsoon Hits. Hour 7: Weaving Down Over Wet Rocks, Cliffs, and Ropes, thanking God coordinated Ricky doesn’t mind hand-holding all the way down. Hour 8: Back at the Bungalow, I have never been so excited to see a porch hammock and bucket-shower in my life.

That night, sitting with Leora and Meghan enjoying homecooked food, good conversation, and our own exhaustion under the glow of a kerosene lamp was one of the highlights of the whole trip. The next morning we took the public mini-bus back to Padang—five hours packed in with patrons like a children’s soccer team and vendors who hop on and off the moving bus, while the Wicked soundtrack mysteriously played softly—and finally reached the thoroughly untoursity urban sprawl of the city in the late afternoon. Meghan and I headed to the surfer beach via disco bus (no really, I have never experienced public transport where house music played so loudly I put in ear plugs) and motorcycle, and quickly garnered attention as the only foreigners, and almost only women, on the beach. But did I mention that the beach featured copious goats?

Padang beach

An advantage of visiting untouristed locales is getting a more “authentic,” local experience (if you even believe in such as a concept). But the flipside is that populations less used to seeing foreigners may give more negative attention—something all Peace Corps Volunteers in China are used to experiencing. In a place like Bali it’s easy to forget that Indonesia is the world’s most populous Muslim nation, but in Sumatra and I’m sure elsewhere, where most women wear headscarves and the call to prayer is a noisy and constant feature of life, it’s hard to forget. On the beach in Padang, uncomfortable with leaving our bags alone on the beach, Meghan and I took turns wading into the shallow water. We had already gotten a lot of well-meaning waves and greetings, so I thought nothing of a shirtless surfer who gestured to me and then approached. Indicating my bathing ensemble (a long tank top over my bikini), he told me in fractured English that, this being a Muslim country, my attire was inappropriate.

Aaand here’s where I have a problem. On the one hand, as a reasonably well-informed traveler I know how important it is to make some effort to adapt to local custom when encountering another culture. But how does one approach customs that are entirely anathema to one’s own beliefs, like the idea that women must remain covered and pure and sequestered? While I wouldn’t hesitate to cover my head when visiting a mosque, any more than I’d do the same inside a church or temple if appropriate, for me this was a situation where such considerations broke down. I am a foreigner with different beliefs, I object to objectifying women by enshrouding them, and I am swimming in this ocean. To what extent should local custom dictate our behavior when traveling? Feel free to weigh in.

Twilight in Padang

In any case, the incident didn’t worsen our beach afternoon, since we also made friendlier friends who competed for the honor of driving us back to town on their motorbikes (something we were happy to accept, having no alternate plan for returning from the remote beach.) Back at the hotel we rendezvoused with our friends and headed to dinner—but not too far from the hotel, since the catcalls on the street got old fast. At 3:30 the next morning I awoke to prepare for my solo journey across the country to Bali.

Sumatra was, in many ways, the hidden gem of the trip. The urban sprawl and its accompanying annoyances were sometimes unpleasant, but the beautiful scenery and friendly people we met more than made up for it. Ikbal, proprietor of our Harau Valley bungalow, told us when we left how much he hoped we would return some day—we should come back on our honeymoons, he suggested, and he’d let us stay for free! I’ll keep that one under advisement.

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Malaysia Revisited: Kuala Lumpur, the Cameron Highlands, and Penang

When I boarded a ferry from Malaysia to Thailand in January 2011 I couldn’t have imagined I’d be back less than a year later. But this is where I found myself in early January as I landed at the Kuala Lumpur airport—the glossier International terminal this time, not that Low Cost Carrier business!

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KL (yellow blob), north to the Cameron Highlands, northwest to Panang, and back.

The first step towards Asia Trip 2012 was deciding to go take advantage of my free time and go. The next step was deciding where to go and with whom. I knew I wanted to meet up with the SNU Crew in Bali (so-called after our common origins in the training group based at Sichuan Normal University), but I was additionally tasked with deciding what to do first: to start with that same group in Vietnam for 10 days, or to spend two weeks visiting Malaysia and Sumatra with a group we’ll refer to as the CQ Posse (and no, this is sadly not a name that anyone else uses).

Pros of the Vietnam option: seeing an entirely new part of a country I’d visited only briefly before, eating yummy Vietnamese food. Cons: greater complication of having to meet up with the groupin medias res in Hanoi. Pros and cons of the Malaysia/Sumatra option: getting to see a wider swath of Indonesia by visiting Sumatra, enjoying a longer overall trip, being able to spend time with more good friends. Cons: repeating Malaysia. As you know, the latter option won out.

After a top-notch flying experience on Cathay Pacific (relatively speaking) I made my way from the KL airport to the improbably-named Ribbon Stayyz hostel in the Chinatown area of the city. I arrived in the early afternoon and had a couple of hours to spare before I met up with my friends, so I contented myself walking around the neighborhood trying to concentrate on staying awake. The first time I visited KL, fresh from several months in provincial China, I was primarily struck by how cosmopolitan and international–even Western–the city felt. But this time, coming from months in California, I felt as if I had stepped firmly back into Asia.

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Chinese temple near our hostel in KL

This impression was certainly helped along by the fact that the 2011 hostel was located in a busy district filled with Western-style bars and malls, while 2012’s stay in Chinatown was bound to feel more oriental. But it was more than that—the urban sprawl, the sights and smells, all read differently through my more occidental eyes. I only spent one night in KL this time, enough time to enjoy some Malaysian noodles and a trip back to a sketchy dance club I remembered too well before moving on to a new destination—the Cameron Highlands.

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Into the jungle go Katy, Meghan and I

The Cameron Highlands are one of Malaysia’s more-visited sites, and this former British hill station is today known for its jungles and tea plantations, made all the more attractive to tourists by its relative proximity to KL (in contrast to the more difficult-to-reach and therefore more untouched national rain forest, Taman Negara, to the northeast). One tip, should you be planning a Cameron Highlands trip: be sure to book accommodation in advance if you’re arriving on a weekend, since this place is popular.

The first thing one notices while walking around town is scones. Or, that was the first thing I noticed—a holdover from the colonial days that serves as the region’s distinctive culinary specialty alongside a Chinese hotpot-esque dish (which we chose never to enjoy). On our first full day we made our best-laid plans: “We’ll do hike 9A as described by the Lonely Planet, and we’ll be sure to avoid forking onto the ‘not recommended’ trail 9. After that it’ll be an easy walk to the tea plantation!” Well somehow we missed the 9-9A fork and ended up on the trail with the “very steep, slippery incline,” picking our way over roots and pipelines. At the bottom we congratulated ourselves on completing a Not Recommended challenge, figuring we had made it through the worst.

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False. The next day we embarked on a guided trip titled Rain Forest Adventure, described by the brochure as featuring a 1-2 hour hike, a blowpipe hunting demonstration, a visit to a traditional village, etc. But the thing about the rain forest is: it rains a lot. And when it rains it pours, and when it pours the trail is either washed away or becomes a pit of mud and despair to slog through for 3.5 hours. Still, we got to enjoy such highlights as seeing a giant, primeval rafflesia flower and, well, dousing myself with a hose at the hike’s conclusion to temper the effects of my fall into the mud. Oh, and in case you were wondering, I also learned on this trip that I would make a very mediocre blowpipe hunter.Image

The Cameron Highlands’ other highlight is its tea plantations, and these take the form of beautiful, verdant hills of shrubby, manicured tea plants (I had no idea that was what they looked like). We visited two and waved goodbye to a third on our bus ride to our final Malaysian destination: Panang.

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Although I had visited the colonial capital of Panang last year, we had spent only a day there and didn’t venture outside town. This time, the greater luxury of three days allowed us to not only reprise a Colonial Georgetown walking tour and a trip to the bar street, but also to visit the beach and national park areas on the north of the island and to get a deeper taste of Panang’s heritage thanks to a trip to the local history museum and other attractions.

Although Panang was the destination I was looking forward to least, due to repetition, I was pleasantly surprised by this opportunity to see the place again under different circumstances. Once you’ve already visited a destination and gotten some of the big-ticket attractions out of the way, you often feel more free to relax and see whatever it is you want to see—or not. Just like it can be a relief to visit Paris without feeling like you “have to” hit the Eiffel Tower and Louvre, it was nice to be able to enjoy a rainy morning in Panang simply chatting and reading in the hostel, without having to worry about what we were missing.

ImagePenang National Park. You know what’s not easy? Successfully jumping in unison

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Returning to Malaysia turned out to be an unexpected pleasure, and by focusing on different priorities, like hiking and jungles, I enjoyed a totally different experience. Next up: 400% as more Maroon 5 songs and 25% as many tourists in West Sumatra.

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Malaysia, Indonesia, and Singapore trip overview

Great news, folks: jetlag from this return-trip from Asia is going quite a bit better than my previous two go-rounds! Now that we’ve gotten that out of the way…

As mentioned in my last post, my decision to spend four weeks traveling in Southeast Asia was a bit last-minute and more a trip of opportunity than of deep forethought. Since I have the luxury/curse of all the time in the world right now as I’m in Redlands prepping for the next step, and since I had ready-made vacations to step into with great friends from the Peace Corps, I decided to capitalize on the opportunity to travel and I booked my tickets to Asia less than two weeks before I was to depart. Tonight, let’s talk about the basics of my trip.

WHERE DID I GO?

A fancy map of my travels. Starting at KL (yellow blob), then moving north through Malaysia, west to Sumatra, southeast to Bali, and north to finish in Singapore (pink blob).

This trip was unusual for me given that most of the planning–where we would go and when–was not in my hands. Because of the last-minute nature of my trip, I found myself joining my friends in the planning process in medias res. However, I was very happy with the itinerary I ended up with, and I had a huge variety of experiences.

First up, I flew to Kuala Lumpur (leaving LAX the night of Jan. 5 and arriving the afternoon of Jan. 7. What?), meeting my friends and staying just a night before we headed to less urban climes (and recall that I spent three days in KL last year). We spent three nights in the Cameron Highlands, an area a few hours north of KL known for its jungles, tea plantations, and scones. Next was a return to Panang (another site from last year) for two nights of city, jungle, and beach, and then a night bus to KL.

Valley near Bukittinggi, Sumatra

On Jan. 14 we flew from KL to Padang, the capital of West Sumatra. We headed to tourist town Bukkittingi for two nights, made lots of fun Indonesia friends, and enjoyed activities like a day-long motorcycle trip to a lake. Next was the nearby Harau Valley for more jungle hiking and two nights of relaxing in our bungalow on a rice paddy. Finally we returned to Padang for an afternoon checking out the beach and an evening avoiding the touts.

On Jan. 19 I broke off from the first group of friends and spent a day traveling solo to meet another group on Gili Trawangan, one of three small islands between Bali and its neighbor, Lombok. We spent five nights in a lovely beach bungalow, then headed to Bali via the Horrifying Ferry Incident. We spent four nights in the cultural heart of the island, Ubud, and then headed to out-of-the-way Balangan beach on the southern peninsula of the island for our last two nights. Finally, one friend and I headed to Singapore for three final days of city living. On Feb 2. I flew home, Singapore – KL – Hong Kong – LA, and still managed to arrive on the same day I had left.

WHY THOSE PLACES/THAT ROUTE?

Logistics for this trip were slightly complicated by the fact that I was coordinating a four-leg trip with two different groups of travel buddies, so I ended up doing a big more moving around than might have been ideal.

But I was happy to hit all the places my friends had chosen: Since I had been to Malaysia before and had primarily stuck to the city and the beach, I was excited to get a different, more jungley perspective. My friends had chosen to visit West Sumatra based on convenience and only brief research, but it was a great, untouristy surprise. Bali was a place my friends and I had long talked of visiting, and ending the trip in urban Singapore after weeks of jungle and beach was a fun choice.

View from our bungalow in Harau Valley, Sumatra

If I had to do it again and was mapping the itinerary myself, I might have skipped Malaysia in favor of spending more time in Sumatra and/or adding on a Java leg. I also might have done Bali a little differently: I’m not sure Gili T was worth going out of our way for, compared with other beaches on Bali itself or even the other Gili islands, and it might have been more convenient to hit the Bali locales in a different order. But overall, even if it wasn’t the exact trip I might have planned myself, sometimes it is nice to let others take the reigns and just go along for the ride. I gueeeesss…

HOW MUCH DID IT COST?

Southeast Asia can be a great budget destination, but once you start hitting cities or more touristy areas costs add up faster. Sumatra was one of the cheapest places I’ve traveled, on par with Laos or Cambodia (outside of Angkor Wat) or rural China. But the Bali area and Malaysia can be significantly more expensive, and it’s no surprise that Singapore prices aren’t much lower than prices in the US. Here’s an approximate rundown of average prices that we actually paid, converted into USD.

One bed in a 3-6 person budget room, per night:

  • Malaysia: $8-11
  • Sumatra: $4-7
  • Bali (Gili T, Ubud, southern peninsula beach): $7-20
  • Singapore: $20

One simple meal at a local or average restaurant, no drink:

  • Malaysia: $2-3
  • Sumatra: $2-3
  • Bali: $2.50-5
  • Singapore: $5-8

One small local beer (remembering that alcohol is taxed more heavily in Muslim countries like Malaysia and Indonesia than in other parts of Asia), bought at either a cheap local restaurant versus a nicer bar:

  • Malaysia: $2.50/$4.50
  • Sumatra: $2.50/$2.50
  • Bali: $2.5/$3.5
  • Singapore: $5/$9

An all-day group tour, per person:

  • Malaysia (jungle trek and other sites with a large group): $28
  • Sumatra (motorcycle trip with one driver-guide per person; strenuous jungle trek with 2 guides for 3 people): $18
  • Bali (large-group guided biking trip including meals): $40
  • Singapore (day-long ticket for a hop-on bus is the only example I’ve got for this one): $18

A 20-minute ride on public transportation versus a 20-minute ride in a taxi:

  • Malaysia: $1/$7
  • Sumatra: $1.50/$6
  • Bali: n/a /$6
  • Singapore: $1.50/$10

So, ups and downs. One could probably travel a little bit cheaper than we did, by staying in slightly grittier hostels and only eating street food, say, but I think these numbers are pretty average for typical budget travelers in these regions.

HIGHLIGHTS? LOWLIGHTS?

Balangan, Bali

Best beach: Balangan, Bali (with the caveat of it being extremely pointy)

Best meal: A ridiculously fresh seafood feast on the beach in Jimbaran, Bali; a hawker center in Singapore for chili crab, stingray, and other dishes with local friend Sashen; a vegetarian Indian lunch in Singapore’s Little India; Malaysian noodles in Panang; the most amazing banana-chocolate-butter-cake dessert thing from carts in Sumatra…

Most overrated meal: Roast pig in Ubud, Bali

Most delicious weird beverage: Sugar cane juice with lemon in Singapore

Least delicious weird beverage: Celery smoothie in a new-age cafe in Ubud, Bali, served room-temperature

Flashiest place to party: Singapore

Trashiest place to party: Kuta, Bali

Worst transportation: The ferry from Gili T to Bali

Best transportation: When we started on the wrong bus from Penang and thought we were going to get to enjoy lie-flat seats and personal screens on our bus ride (unfortunately it didn’t work out)

Most-encountered nationalities of tourists, in descending order: Australian, Swedish, Canadian, Dutch, German, Russian, American

COMING UP NEXT

Run-downs of each of the four legs of the trip! Plus, answers to all the questions that have you hanging on tenterhooks, including what could be so Horrifying about a ferry ride and how a beach can be pointy. Stay tuned!

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